Question From Dess

Dess

"Hi guys! So a few months ago around the end of april this guy that i like told me that he had a girlfriend even tho he still had feelings for me and i believed every word he said but then later found out he was "April Fooling" me and everything went back to normal. A few weeks later he told me again that he had a girlfriend and i told him that if he has a girlfriend he shouldn't treat me like i'm his girlfriend but he said that he would never love anyone more than me and that no one could ever take my place. I told him to stop doing what he was doing and then again he told me that he was joking. Now a few days one of his close friends finally told me that he really did have a girlfriend and showed me proof of it by sending some messages that he sent to her. It's not that i don't think he loves me or anything but he was telling the truth but then told me a lie. Apparently him and this girl aren't getting along and i'm not sure if they're still together or not. Do you guys have any idea what this could mean? Do you think he really loves me or Is just playing with me? Please help i don't know what to do :(

Regards,
Dess"

Well Dess, to me it seems like this guy likes you. He probably kept telling you that he has feelings for you even though he has a girlfriend to see how you would react. I don't think he was lying, I just think he was trying to see if you would respond favorably. Then he would take back what he said when you told him that you don't want him to treat you like his girlfriend if he already has one. My advice would be to just straight up ask him if he really likes you or is just playing with you. Hope this helped!

With great love,

Jill

Question From Destiny

Destiny 

"There's this guy I like and recently he has another girlfriend. While he was in a relationship with her he told her that she was the only girl he loved and wanted to be with but at the same time he was telling me the same thing he told her. What do you guys think this means?  

                                                       

Destiny, with true honesty I would stay away from him. It seems to me that that guy is a player and he just wants to be with anyone. However, there could be another meaning. He could really like you but maybe he feels like he is forced to be with the other girl. While I hope that that is what he means, I think that it is probably the first one. I hope this helps and I am deeply sorry if I am misinterpreting the situation. 

Best of Luck,

Jack

Question From Linda

Question From Linda

"My  mom doesnt think im pretty. Me and her dont really get along and idk. A day ago i took a really cute selfie and everyone complimented me. My stepdad said "you look cute" when he said that my mom says "oh she looks alright" and i already have low self esteem and hearing her say that lowers it more. And she always compliments my cousin and sisters but never me. I feel like she doesnt love me and i remember in 4th grade (5 years ago) she use to call me a fat lazy a** pig and thats when my self esteem lowered. I dont know what to do or how to feel soo please help"

Linda, (if that is your name), I am so sorry to hear this! I think that you should go face to face with your mom and tell her that you feel this way! Tell her that you don't appreciate how she is putting you down and that you already have a low self esteem. I would also try to tell an adult friend so they can help you out. I am sure that you are a nice, caring, pretty young lady! And NEVER listen to those who are putting you down. I hope this helps and i wish you the best!

With great love,

Jill